I know in my state (Massachusetts) you can sign a release for a T to talk to a T. I signed one so my doctor could talk to my T. BUT!!!! There was a definite time limit applied to it.
It is good that your T talks to your kids T, but I think that would make me more guarded in my own therapy. I wouldn't mind the two talking, but I would like to know why they need to talk and when. I guess that is where the time limit comes into play in this state. Mine was for one month. I like the time limit as I can know exactly when people are talking.
Don't worry. Talk to your T and see whats going on. Just because you want or feel you need to purge does not mean you have to.
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