Must you live with your mom? Perhaps you could live close to her and retain independence.
What about your soul mate, how does she figure in the advantages or disadvantages of Singapore?
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She is also feeling horrible and upset about making me feel this way.
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Even though she has reasons to stay in Singapore, she does seem to care a lot about you. One way to think about this is to note that you prefer Perth and she prefers Singapore, and ask to whom would it be the bigger loss to accept living in the location preferred by her/his soul mate?