Hi emwell2,

This is a good question.

I remember my first consultation with my current therapist.

One of the first things she said to me was, "I'll tell you straight up when you are crossing the line with me".

So far, she hasn't told me I'm crossing the line.

I, personally, do not have the kind of relationship with my T where I ask personal questions.

I wonder what other member's experiences are?

I am sure there could be ones that are quite different to mine. I'd be interested to hear responses on this one.