emwell2, hi

I had a therapist in 2011 when I got out of rehab who was recommended as a former psychologist of the treatment center. Very quickly I felt it was important to ask her if she was in recovery. She had no problem telling me that she was clean and sober from a history of cocaine and alcohol use.

Not sure on the married front. Look for a ring? I think it's fair to ask as well. Just frame the conversation with "I hope this is appropriate, but I have a few personal questions for you." or something.

Best of luck and let us know how it goes. Thanks,

moogs