I took it with the idea in mind of, who would i let into my life at this point? And picturing people who i know liked me in the past - how would they have treated me, if i could have appreciated what they were offering. That came out secure. Instead of trying to relive my horrible past with my parents, which is how i took the test previously, answering for actual ex-hs, and not coming out secure. Probably anxious avoidant or dismissive, the old score is on pc somewhere.

But i feel pretty confident in my ability to protect myself from falling into a bad relationship now. I dont feel so vulnerable, or desperate for attention. Ive gotten that from t, and from you guys

Eta - and from david wallin. Archi, please tell him thanks for me and that we love his book on here and promote it often!