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Originally Posted by Orvel
Thanks, but except for physical attraction, I don't feel anything for her anymore  .
From these little manipulations she is not a great person. She just went to me because I was being interesting and I was constantly saying interesting things, opening up and talking about things that happened to me. Me showing interest was just a bonus for her. She needs attention and will do these subtle things just to get it.
For a long time she was making "eye-and-body-language-drama" that I couldn't stop noticing, but I didn't know what to think about this. Then for a couple of days she dressed sexy and was attempting to catch me looking at her. I didn't look, so she stopped and tried looking at me with extremely emotional eyes.
I thought there is something there, but there really isn't. If it were, she would take my feelings into account, but she didn't so she really doesn't care.
So she is not that great, she just looks that way. I guess this is a good lesson for me . |
Sorry, Orvel!
I didn't understand this part about the attraction game. So you think that she used you for boosting her ego.
Are you completely sure? I have learnt lately that men are very prone to see a women is flirting with them when the woman is only being nice.
For example, someone told me that smiling a man could be intérpret as a sexual attraction for the man. When I do smile everybody all the time. It's my way to socialize. The same as calling names: I like calling people any kind of carefull name as: my guy, my girl, my heart, my love...nothing to do with sexual attraction. It's my way to be friendly and give peopl confidence with me.
Only an idea. I'm not saying that you are wrong or anything similar.