Thread: rocd or denial?
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Old Jan 30, 2015, 03:19 PM
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I feel like you've touched upon something important with the use of the expression'infatuation love'.
Is that what gives butterflies? When I think of butterflies, I think of jitters and adrenaline.

I really find it's important to just enjoy and 'be' in the moment. Measuring what is love by another's yardstick does no relationship any good.

A pros cons list can help. And the tug of war with breaking up getting back only fuels adrenaline, and it's not a fair treatment of another.

Could you see a t about your ocd concerns?

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