january, i ended up being my mother's caregiver also. and it got to be okay. i realized that she needed me and she had given life to me and i could just move past the hurt and pain and try to grow with helping her.

i think LMo's idea was good and also Angie's....frequently Habitat for Humanity takes on those kinds of activities.......i know you can find a way to do this.....

and listen, a bed bath is not the worst thing in the world for her til this gets fixed. a "sponge" bath and she can wash herself down below. a little dirt is good for the soul......

take care, love pat