It's the fear again... You're looking for every which way to sabotage yourself.

Ts are not meant to be our friends or replace rl relationships. They are suppliments. They are, in a sense, teachers, mirrors, sounding-boards, cheerleaders.

They're not there to fill a need; they're there to teach us how to fill our needs ourselves. Whatever holes we have in us from our past will never be filled. But we can build around it. We build ourselves and our lives.