I understand that you really like this guy and would like to stay informed.

As much as I agree with your perspective, it helps to try to put yourself in his shoes. Maybe he's going through a really tough time right now, maybe he is talking to NO ONE, not even his closest friends or family. And, maybe he needs his space, which includes not needing to give anyone updates about his condition.

I think it is too soon in the relationship for you to be overly concerned about him and/or the fact that he hasn't called. If I were you, I would just give him his time and space, and move on, trying to keep an open mind. Dating is like a tennis match. The ball has to be hit back n forth. If you have hit the ball to his court, let him hit it back.

The harsh reality is, no matter what a magical connection you think you may have with him, he may not call back. People will do what people wanna do.

I had a similar experience - first date was AWESOME, sparks flying everywhere, I even saw wedding bells ringing in the distance and a lot of "what if" - she stayed out late with me and even drank with me. That was the end of that ! I never heard back from her, and was left wondering why. I now know the answer ... one word ... "because".

Hope this helps. For your sake, please don't get too vested in this person. I don't want you to get disappointed and hurt.

I wish you the very best.