fred bare..First of all, it's nice to meet you..sorry that you feel like you do..you may have just opened my eyes as to why my youngest son acts like he does. You described him pretty well..I also think you should at least talk things over with your wife before making any decisions. Depression can affect you in so many ways..Don't discredit your life on your own, please..it sounds like to have someone who cares to be with you. Be blessed...