We don't push for commitment from someone we only want to be friends with & have no emotional interest in. When we just want someone to go & do things with but know that personalities aren't what would make for a committed relationship, we definitely don't push for commitment & try as graciously as possible to let them know how we feel. Some guys just don't get what they are being told. I dated a few who were like that.....& I dated plenty that were the ones not interested in a committed relationship either & we didn't consider each other BF or GF....JUST FRIENDS.