I agree completely with Sideblinded. I'll also add that this jumped out at me.

Obviously we're only looking at a snapshot, but your confusion might be much more subtle than pure trust issues or even some kind of childhood trauma. I could be more a subconscious reaction to your father noticing women other than your mother. Maybe you trained yourself to notice women because below the surface you didn't want your dad noticing them over your mom?

I don't know obviously, I just found that particular sentence very telling and could be reading a lot into it.

Oh, and like Sideblinded said, there's no need to worry about labels. Sexuality is a broad spectrum, not neat little on-size-fits-all categories. Be who you are, that's the most important thing.