Itīs an interesting point you make that Iīm sabotaging myself. I mean that in an honest way but Iīm not sure I understand what you mean by that? Am I sabotaging myself because Iīm very thorough in my search for a new T?
I think a T for some time will be the most important relationship I have even if I get your point that the goal is to make the client independent and capable of solving issues in their lives.
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
It's the fear again... You're looking for every which way to sabotage yourself.
Ts are not meant to be our friends or replace rl relationships. They are suppliments. They are, in a sense, teachers, mirrors, sounding-boards, cheerleaders.
They're not there to fill a need; they're there to teach us how to fill our needs ourselves. Whatever holes we have in us from our past will never be filled. But we can build around it. We build ourselves and our lives.
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