So I regularly read this board and occasionally post, but at the moment it strikes me how futile it all is. We all struggle, we try and get help from t, problems are remarkably similar even though when we're in them it feels so unique. Can anyone really say there's a way out of this? Sometimes I don't think it matters how hard I try I can make small changes, but I can't change my life in the way I want, no matter how hard I try. Maybe it's too late after a certain point in your life? What are your opinions?