I used to have a friend who was half Thai and half Caucasian. Her mother was Thai, and she had similar complaints--except her mother felt that if my friend wasn't married and producing children, she was worthless.

I'm sure her mother loved her, but in her own way and with her own expectations.

Your mother loves you, but she has a lousy was of showing it! She has certain expectations of you, as all parents do, but for some reason she's making that ALL she cares about.

It's horribly sad to me that she treats you this way. I wish I had some advice for you. Just know that you have been heard, and I am thinking of you.

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