When t and i touched on the topic of my 'not normal' sibling. I got curious about her 'countertransference response' . How dare she say my sib is not normal?! I had a gut feeling it was coming from her own drama with a perhaps 'not normal' child in her family.
So I googled her. And discovered a daughter who is lesbain. Yeah, pretty 'abnormal' for a t who seems so healthy and put-together.