Holy carp. My initial reaction is - you cant refer out DV clients; you wont have any clients left! I was surprised when you started this thread; i didnt understand how you thought PC could help. Now it feels like you want someone to point out that you still feel unsafe in your home, but you got angry at me the last time i did so. I understand that it is an untenable position. Maybe a different t - a female t? - could help brainstorm some more practical solutions, if only on a consultant basis.