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Originally Posted by Orvel
During the last two days she was confident and acted normally. Before THAT day ... she was being especially nice to me, wanting to be around me, looking vulnerable, emotional, standing close to me, constantly wanting to talk to me when I was alone and just asking ANY kind of question ... basically constantly doing these little things. I couldn't shake the feeling that something was going on. We were in the same office for literally 8 hours. She was doing this all the time.
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Forgive me if I'm going to say a stupidiness.
Haven't you thought for a moment that she appreciates you and enjoy your company (you both spend lots of ours in the same office), so she is being like she is (funny, friendly...) but when she realized you wanted to be further with her, she wanted to put a stop.
What you say about she liking everyone, never being upset by people, optimist, glad, waiting the best from people...do you think a person like that can be a different thing to a nice person?
I'm learning now, yeah, I'm learning now, at my 42, how to deal with people. What is that about human relations. The fact that someone has different intentions towards us, to the intentions we have towards them, doesn't mean they don't care or they are bad people.