We are honestly nothing alike in that sense. I'm always a live and let live person, she is racist and homophobic. I love to travel and adventure in the out doors, I don't think shes been out of the house in months. The only time I ever did anything remotely even considered spanking (my daughter loves yo eat dog food) I picked her up turned her around and patted her butt to get her moving away, I cried for 15 mins. I'm not gonna put one kid down for A's because of the others C's, I don't live in the past, I don't needlessly worry about nothing. Idk. What I need to do is learn how to handle her with out being labeled a B****. This just sucks