Yeah, that was the reason why I wanted to put "proud" as my mood. My brother's graduation is a big deal. It isn't often that I feel proud and I was bummed I couldn't show on my profile how I felt. And I don't think most people here feel proud arrogantly. I think it's important to give others a chance to feel good about themselves. Being proud of something doesn't always happen, and when you're MI that can be a very rare feeling, whether you're proud you remembered to take your meds or proud you went three days without feeling symptoms, or even proud of something that happened to you. This is a caring forum and I believe most people here feel proud in a good way, and this forum should not be a forum of judgment.