I have Monday at 1pm and Friday at 12 ...these are our times together...always have been...that way also when theres a break T says they are still my time ...I guess this way I can see that there's a tiny part of me that belongs with T and other clients belong to her at their allotted time...its not like a train where people get on and off willy neely and one minute its me...the next its someone else...it really does create a feeling of belonging..took a while...I wouldnt want someone elses time slot because I'd feel as if I was intruding on what they have/had with T...whatever it is they have in their time slot is different to what I have with T in my time slot...ownership/relationship...I have a relationship wiht T at those times which overflows into my outside life but always returns to centre...which is the time slot....like a mushroom cloud effect...