Thank you all

I have made assumptions about my Therapist.
I guess I just want to know if these assumptions were right.

She has shared personal stuff in passing. Like she raised her kids the next town over from me and she has grandkids. But this stuff came up in regular conversation. I don't think I've ever come right out and asked her a direct question.

No that is a lie.

I so had to know her reasoning when she told me she brought her cat to the shelter where she had gotten him years before. I am a diehard animal lover and thought less of her when I learned she had given up an animal. It took a week of me obsessing over it, but I asked. Talking about it made me feel a bit better.

Everyone's replies are preparing me very well for when I do ask questions. And yes as of right this minute, I will be asking questions.

Thank you all.