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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:00 PM
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I will say that it's never been longer than 4 pages and I didn't want her to read it with me there. She has also requested to read my journals as I complete them if I would let her. I know one of her clients brings her in 50+ pages a week for her to read and make notes on t refers to it as her homework - that would make me uncomfortable and I'd never go that far.

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Originally Posted by SnakeCharmer View Post
To me, asking my T to read a big stack of emails or a journal out of session would feel like an unreasonable request. If it was important to me, I'd expect to use session time. A lot of email and journal content is spent wandering around in the weeds before ever getting to the point.

Expecting a T to read that stuff just seems ... well, when I was in junior high school, before texts and emails, the main way girls communicated in school was in notes secretly passed. Sometimes boys, too. They held great meaning and we'd pass other people's notes back and forth with our closest friends for comment and interpretation. We spent hours at it, largely because we had hours to spend thinking about such things and not too much life outside of school and family. I'd hope my T had enough of a life to say s/he didn't have time for that, but we could talk about it in session. Maybe I'm biased. I'm sure my fave T would have refused a pile of emails. But I sure did enjoy sharing my life that way with girlfriends back when it was the only way we knew how to do it.
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