At the beginning of my therapy with my current t, i told him i couldnt go on forever, being important to nobody. This sounds like same thing to me. Ideally, we are important at birth to our parents. It immunizes us against diseased lovers, in a way! But if we are not immunized, we will always be weak for love. Through good therapy, i believe we can become strong against bad love.

It sounds to me, like this t finally heard what was behind L-soul's request to him to listen to her music. She is asking, am i important? A t should interpret this as - i do not feel important ( because of my childhood or whatever); help me change so i feel important, but i trust you not to take advantage of me. Thats how it worked for me.