Your husband married a woman he thought was going to contribute to the family income and now you want to quit and stay home? It sounds to me like that is taking advantage of your husband. Wouldn't we all want to stay home and let someone else take care of us and pay the bills? If you think all people who work are fulfilled and love their jobs, well I don't know them. Most of my friends work to pay bills, it's their responsibility. Even after having children work is usually necessary because life is expensive. Please think long and hard about giving up a good paying job. If you take yourself out of circulation for a few years by staying at home and then find you need the money later on you may be in for a surprise. Jobs are not easy to come by, let alone jobs that fulfill your life's dream.