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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro
Hola again, Orvel,
I can hear what you say. I sometimes have the same feeling.
But, think a thing. You are now learning yourself better through therapy and you are now having the determination to explore the outside world.
So, you are going to enjoy all this process much moré bc you were waiting for these things and craving for them.
You can't change the fact that perhaps, you weren't ready to get these things normal people get so easily. Now, you can get them.
I know how you feel. I feel a naive when I'm an old person.
Why not thinking that being a naive can also imply that you are moré genuine and therefore moré special.
You have time to meet people. You sound for you posts that you are open up people. You will get it.
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Thanks for reminding me to not think about what was, but when people talk about where they are going after, where they were and what they heard (from friends)... it's really difficult to stay positive. Now I remembered that my T said that my energy should be used differently that it is now... there's no point in thinking about the past or thinking how the general picture looks like. She told me she will teach me to catch these thoughts and direct them elsewhere.
You said you are 42... are you going to therapy ?