I wish I could be a homemaker. I'm so sick of working. It's not economically possible though and it looks like I'll have to endure being in the the workforce for 10 more years before I can retire. Life is like that though, so you might have to join your husband and the rest of us in work hell and just try to make the best of it, or look for a new job. My wife has had the luxury of being a stay at home mom for the past few years since I make a half way decent living and more than she did. We've had to give up vacations like we once took and a few other luxuries since she's not been working and she's now looking to get back to work since our daughter will be in high school soon.