Uh-oh. I would probably describe myself the same way, except i can get loud. But people are always - and i mean freakin always like "who-th asked them anyways always" telling me i am angry. Sweet lil ol me - imagine that?! I can identify with the screaming teenagers who get sent to horse camp on dr phil, but my mother would have skinned me alive before i ever even thought of raising my voice to her. If she didnt like the question?? - i learned to shut it. So excessively polite can have feelings behind it, even if we cant really feel them anymore. They leak out. Like mayo on a sandwich. Yeah, i just had mayo on a sandwich...