Thank you for the responses

JJBX - I agree with your opinion. While I do have insecurities and I do not like that she had sex with this person I have never had a problem with her hanging out with men. I don't even have a problem with het hanging out with this guy. I hsve told her she can have what ever relationship she wants with bim but I do not want to know about it. My biggest problem is the guy is a diry bag. I do not want him as part of my life. He tried to hsve sex witj my wife's sister and her other cousin. The creepy way he looks at me. I've seen him looking down my wife's shirt. He is not someone I need to associate with. It bothers me thst my wife thinks I shouldn't have a problem with this and she has told me that because I do it cheapens our relationship and what we have. I think the opposite of this. Why isshe angry that I don't like this person or that they had sex? I get so confused.

Toolman65 -
I agree with what you said as well. The only problem is the whole family knows according to my wife. There a few problems I have with this as well but I will have to wait until I am at a computer and not my phone.