I'm sorta with Hankster on this one Archipelago... Is there something in your own situation that you're trying to not see?
There is somewhat of a desperate feel to your later posts and the first *was* quite dry and intellectual-feeling, despite the subject matter. Even the way you chose to deal with it seems controlled to me - as I mentioned earlier.
I'm sorry if I'm out of line. I am a DV survivor. I may well be projecting my own experience.

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