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Old Jan 31, 2015, 11:45 PM
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Originally Posted by CosmicRose View Post
I'll make this as short as possible.
I went out with a guy last night and he was a jerk. Here's the gist of what happened -
1) He didn't get out of his car to greet me, not a big deal, I walked to his car and opened the door and he seemed either really tired or uninterested
2) He made fun of my music taste calling it "horrible"
3) We went over a bump and he joked saying "I hit a cat. Good."
4) I told him what I do (job) and he said "That's it?"
5) We get to his house & he keeps asking me what I want to do & when I said I dunno what do you want to do? He called me boring, more than once
6) He said he didn't want to listen to my playlist anymore & I jokingly said "Oh alright" in a sarcastic tone & he said "Wow, you can walk home." By this point I was wanting to leave
7) He made fun of me because I couldnt get the hookah hash out of the package and he was making me feel really dumb
8) He changed into pajamas & when he asked me if he could do that I said "Go for it." He paused & looked at me so I said "Go for it." again & he looked at me strangely & said "Weirdo."
9) I moved my hand to grab the hookah pipe that he was holding & he said "Wow, excuse you? Bad manners." By this point I started to be quiet because everything I said he was either taunting me or making me feel weird
10) He said "You're acting like, zombie-status right now." I got up & grabbed my purse & asked him to drive me home, he tried to apologize saying he was just being sarcastic, but nothing he said was funny, the way he was talking to me was just plain mean.

Oh and somewhere in between all that, I grabbed a beer that was closed & put it to my mouth & he spent 30 seconds laughing hysterically at that & called me awkward. I started crying towards the end of the date, I couldn't hold my tears back, he felt really bad after that & we spent the drive home mostly in silence.

He texted me after I got home saying, "I'm truly sorry I didn't give you the night you expected, you're absolutely gorgeous and well grounded, I blew it."
I didn't text him back.
I'm really confused about this entire date. Any advice would be appreciated.
He sounds like he may use sarcasm to hide his insecurities. Block him from contacting you and move on! His behavior has nothing to do with you and reflects his own issues. You don't need guys like that...you are "sbsolutely gorgeous and well grounded"...he said it himself. You deserve much better!
Thanks for this!
CosmicRose, growlycat