Hi eyes clouded, I'm going to be looking for a T soon myself and don't want to be playing the "nice to meet you" game either. Let's get to the nitty gritty.
I made a notebook on my iPad just for then and wrote down everything about me I want to say. Then I'm going to tell her to listen as I read it off. The notebook includes past thoughts, happenings, my concerns, symptoms, etc. And I'm going to throw it all at her.
Will it go that way? I hope so because I can't manage a continuous chain of thoughts.
I too can't work for anyone. The only job I manage to get through is by being self employed. A new client every few days up to a week at most. Even this is getting difficult now because I've been at it for 18 years.
I hope you find your place.