And you assume the only reason she would refer to you someone is because that would help the income of someone she is sleeping with? Really? 1. Your business probably wouldn't make much difference in the scheme of things in his practice financially. 2. What a way to think of your LC! Jump to the worst possible conclusion.

Her life is her own. That's the reality.

You need a licensed therapist. How's that search going? You can't collapse every time the reality that this woman is not your mother hits you. You need some help other than her, so you can build some healthy coping skills and gain a dose of perspective and reality.