Thanks you guys....I always need help with my thinking processes as of late! I did look into a PI but it was going to cost me about $100 for one hour. Then I thought about it and it wasn't worth it.

Cajun, thanks for your input. It made me think how I needed to think. However, I gave my husband an opportunity to "fix" the phone calls by asking him to go listen to them together and he flat out refused...then he went and erased them and changed his password. So if he had nothing to hide, he would have done that for me. I truly feel that way. Am I wrong in thinking that?

Direction, thanks, as always!