That's not necessarily true and your relationship with her does not mirror a healthy mother/daughter relationship. Growli, I get what you're saying, but its not just your "home" - if I read your post correctly her daughter was in the concert. In that case it is also her (and many other people's) "home" too. You can't really claim ownership like that. I understand the feeling but you have to let yourself get past the emotions and face reality. It's the only real option you have that will be helpful to you.