I refuse to coddle someone who does the same thing over and over again. That's what her LC is doing!

The problem is that OP isn't in therapy, doesn't want therapy, doesn't want to see LC for who she really is, and doesn't want to get better.

I feel so frustrated.

Do I understand how it would feel to run into your T out in public? Hell, yeah. I panic seeing my T in the hallway of her building. But it's the delusion that the OP is holding onto that makes this situation difficult.