People are where they are and are not going to change or be different because someone else is frustrated. Why keep coming back to something that one finds so frustrating because the other person won't do it your way? Who are we to judge whether someone else wants to get better or not? And so what if someone does not want to be different the way others want them to be? It is their life to have.
I think that if someone wants to write on this board about their struggles and upsets it is better than going out and doing any number of other things. It is no one else's situation to fix.

I am happy I don't think I would recognize the therapist out of context. I would not like running into her out in the world, even without the other parts that OP has going on. Adding on the other parts would make it feel quite bad I imagine.