Hi Justice, I have been one of the ones who has logged on read your post and not responded—matter of fact I logged on a few times and helped drive the numbers up. Sometimes, when topics are tough for me I will read them a few times and then write out a response in word when I get a chance. I really hope you don’t feel like I don’t care. I am very introverted and it just takes time for me to say what I mean with difficult things. Like with you dealing with your fathers death, I am still unsure what to say—about the only thing I can think of is sorry and face it that sounds lame. I do care, I am just unsure of what to say. Maybe next time, I can leave a short message and then write a longer one when I get a chance.