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Originally Posted by Ididitmyway
Omg precaryos! I am so sorry..I know this hurts like hell..I had a somewhat similar experience and even though the overt sexual boundary had never been violated by my last "therapist", the emotional seduction and turning the relationship into God knows what (close friendship/the role reverse/mentor-mentee etc) felt on some level as a sexual violation..
It's been 3 years since this whole thing ended. I reported him and he was disciplined by the board. I also wrote an online review of him to warn other potential and current clients. It helped a lot in my healing. But the pain is still there and I suspect won't go away for a long time..I am doing relatively well though because I was able to recognize what was going on while I was still in that relationship and started preparing to exit it slowly and gradually to make it as least traumatic as possible...
You can PM me if you want to vent privately..
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I am sorry to hear that you went through something similar. Just three years since it ended...it is still pretty fresh for you. I am glad you are healing and feel well.
I don't know what it would take for me to feel over it all. I received some justice, but not what I expected. Even if he went to prison (which he should have) I still hate what he reduced me to. To be honest, I google his name hoping I will find that he has died. I can't hurt him.
I talk about him in therapy. My hatred doesn't change. That's fine. I should hate him. My pain doesn't change. And I feel powerless to do anything about it.