My girlfriend discovered pictures of women on my computer which have since been deleted.I know that this has hurt her very badly and I am now seeing a therapist but it is moving too slow for both of us.
I want to repair our relationship but I am not sure how?There are no group therapies in our area. I have broken her trust which is terrible because her ex-husband had been cheating on her with 4 or 5 other women and she discovered his secrets.
I just feel guilty as hell and don't know how to fix the damage I have done? I have been "clean" for over a month now but she is still very upset and I find her crying alot by herself, I have also started watching a video from a therapist who deals with the people who are victims of my type of behavior and that has shown me how devastating this has been for my GF.
I know it is a long and slow process but I just want things to return to normal and so does she. My GF has made herself the moderator of my computer which helps alot but it just doesn't seem to be enough! Any suggestions?