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Old Feb 02, 2015, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted by PaulaS View Post
I think communication in e-mails is important as well. I wrote an e-mail to her to show my interest in therapy and I think thatīs worth some kind of notice. If I choose to run, itīs because I get disappointed with people and most often I canīt forget the disappointment, Then, itīs not worth trying to do so either.
This T behaved in an appropriate, professional way. It may not be what you wanted but it was appropriate to the situation. People are not always going to behave the way you want them to - if you expect that then it's guaranteed you will always find something to be disappointed about. Why not focus on the fact that you liked her in person instead of looking for flaws? Everyone should have high standards but yours are unreasonable and keep you locked in a pattern that clearly doesn't work for you.

Last edited by Lauliza; Feb 02, 2015 at 09:26 AM.
Thanks for this!
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