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Old Feb 02, 2015, 09:35 AM
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Poohbah
 
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Yes. Mine can shift from one session to the next. It's really hard because I feel like I won't feel better until I see her again and see if things are ok. She reminded me that she doesn't change, she's not my mother (negative stuff I'm projecting), etc.

I would talk to her about it. Mine has gotten better but I still feel insecure about it all. If I feel connected to her during a session, then I will probably have a good week. If I don't feel connected or she makes a statement that hits me wrong, I worry that she doesn't like me anymore or thinks differently of me.

Hang in there. I'm sure on her end nothing has changed. Deep down you probably had an expectation of how the session would go and it turned out differently.

Are you able to make eye contact with her? At the end of my session last week I told my T. I didn't feel good about leaving (usually a sign I'll lose it the next day). She asked why and the only thing I could think is that I didn't feel connected (meaning soaking in eye contact). So, she just sat there and locked eyes with me. It helped. I realized later that most of the session I had looked everywhere except her (happens if I talk a lot). So, now I realize I need to make more eye contact to feel it.
Thanks for this!
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