Hi Maya25

I am sorry to hear that you are going through some troubles at the moment.

It sounds to me as if there could be many possible things going on with your father right now that he may have to deal with.

Unfortunately it puts you in the difficult situation in that you are sitting by having to watch all of this happen and are feeling the effects of what he is doing.

It sounds as if his actions are not just unsettling to you, but to the rest of your family aswell.

Part of it may lie in the fact that he was made redunant, but where else it stems from, I am not entirely sure.

I hope for you and your family's sake that he is able to work through these issues so that you can experience peace.