One day she's going to move, transfer, refer you to someone else.

How are you going to deal with that?

How old are you,?

People are trying to help you and you refuse to see it. You're stuck in a fantasy world.

What was the purpose of beginning to see her anyway? I have no idea what a life coach is, you said you have had trauma. You probably need a trauma T.

This is the definition of a unhealthy relationship. Why not venture out, see someone else, it may help you. You're not her daughter, and referring to her as your "life coach mom" is keeping you attached.

Nobody here is afraid to get attached to their t's like you're accusing people of, they are adults who have a professional relationship with a mental health professional. Why would we be afraid of that? It's actually fairly common I guess to experience transference but not to the extent you have. So what do you do about it? You need to find a T who fits you, and one that fits you is going to be one with strong boundaries.