If i were you, i would ask to have this thread shut down as being mostly unsupportive. I think your own posts have been very insightful and show a lot of growth. You know i have been following you a long time and i can clearly see that. You did not ask for this incident to happen - you were seriously minding your own business! And i am really shocked that it seemed people were here practically lying in wait, instead of being able to just respond to this one incident. You obviously ARE growing in your relationship with LCM. Imo, you are right about so many things you said here. I cant believe that people are saying things to you, that they would NOT appreciate being told themselves, or even close to. And i dont mean "between the lines" - i mean straight out - as if that makes it better? "Drop your counselor, i dont think they are good for you" - really???

hey, sometimes i wanna write, "Why in the world would you do THAT??? I think thats cuckoo!!"( Okay, thanks, nice to know!!) Who doesnt? But is that SUPPORTIVE? The rules are, if you cant say something supportive, dont say anything at all.