Actually, I feel that criticizing the posters who disagree with your perception of support is not being supportive and is detering the focus away from the OP to the people responding. This is how threads get locked. We obviously disagree. That's okay. But you don't need to point out the disagreement. You can offer your support the way you see fit and none if us will directly criticize you for it.

I have had a thread that I wasn't finding helpful. With some discussions with people I "trust" (in the sense of their perception), I decided to delete the thread. OP has the same rights as all of us.