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Old Feb 02, 2015, 04:25 PM
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Yes you are obsessed. I say it with compassion as I know how it feels.

I have a therapist, it doesn't bother me that she has a husband and kids, it certainly doesn't upset me. I don't mind to look at their pics but I don't even care to. If she showed up anywhere I am at it wouldn't affect me, I won't cry so bad I had to leave work or go drink. It wouldn't bother me. I don't want to hug or touch her and don't want her to be my mother whatsoever, she helps to get my mental health in check because she knows how to, but nothing more than that.

Saying all that I know what obsessions are. I was very obsessed with men before and know how that goes. I am obsessed with one now. You are obsessed.

But I don't blame you. I am on your side here, I know what obsessions are. I blame LC. She isn't helping you. It isn't professional of her to feed the obsession. Maybe you are doing better but that isn't good enough.

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