Absolutely no shaming whatsoever. Trust me. I do crap in life you won't believe and I am almost 50 years old. I recently became a victim of major financial scam that I have no one to blame to but myself all due to obsessions and attachments etc

What I am saying is your LC isn't helpful the way she should be. She facilitated your obsession knowingly or maybe just because she is unprofessional .

I am not shaming you at all, not your fault and listen we are in the same boat or in fact I am way worse. You are still young but what's my excuse?

Hugs and I just want you to get better and be happy and healthy trust me

PS I only brought my mom as an example because you said earlier that moms and daughters would warn each other of showing up, no, don't really have to. No matter. And because you said you love her, I don't get upset when people I love show up places I am at. What to be upset about? And bring upset of seeing her daughter's pics? Why? That is not healthy.

That's what I am saying. Not healthy but again not your fault

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