I think, it'd be best if you discuss this with the therapist directly. You already got the feedback you were asking for on this forum. If you still feel unsure, at this point, the only way to deal with it is to talk with this therapist about it when you see her next time. At the end of the day, the most important thing is whether you and the therapist can come to an agreement on how therapy will be conducted and if you both follow the terms of the agreement, whatever it may be. If you and the therapist are not on the same page about it from the start, then, I agree, it's not a good start. But there is no way for you to know that unless you see her next time and talk to her about it.